Losing a job can be a terrifying thing. Thoughts about how to pay the rent or mortgage or put food on the table add pressure. A person who is the family's sole source of income can feel even more overwhelmed. Added to this stress is the feeling of failure that many experiences, even if the job loss wasn't a result of anything they did.
The idea of having to face judgment as they seek out another job can be another fear the individual faces. As a friend, you want to help. One way you can do this is to offer one (or some) of the following 55 words of encouragement for someone who lost their job.
What Are Words of Encouragement and Why Are They So Important?
Words of encouragement are things you say to someone to help them see that things aren't always going to be as they are now. These words can be profound or simple. What is important is that they bring some type of comfort to the person who hears them. Unfortunately, you may not always see the impact of your words immediately, but if you deliver the words sincerely, the person will take the words in and they will be remembered in time.
Why These Words are Important
Depression is something that often accompanies a loss. This is because a person feels they have no control. This also creates fear. Grief is going to be present. Everyone goes through the stages of grief differently, but they experience the pain and confusion. By offering words of encouragement, you remind the person that this is only a temporary situation. You remind them that they are strong and can overcome the temporary situation. Most of all, you let them know they don't have to go through this situation alone. You are there for them to lean on.
Offering words of encouragement for someone who lost their job can be difficult. You understand the reality of the hardship, but you don't want to remind the person of this. It is important to keep in mind that the person who most often is the strongest one can be hit the hardest. They aren't used to being out of control of the situation.
In this case, you want to remind them that there are things they can do to regain control. Focus on the next steps that need to be taken and the fact that the person has you to help. Knowing you aren't alone in a difficult situation is often the greatest help.
Let's look at some words of encouragement for someone who has lost their job that you can use now. Don't worry about saying them eloquently, what's most important is that words of encouragement be said from the heart.
55 Words of Encouragement for Someone Who Lost Their Job
1. Don't panic! Remember that panic means “putting additional negativity into chaos”. Staying calm will help you stay focused on success.
2. When navigating a storm, raise your sail and keep looking toward the shore.
3. You've acquired many great skills. Let's sit and make a list of all of them.
4. Let's make a plan for a job search and we can break it down into steps to make it less overwhelming.
5. I'm here for you. What do you need me to do?
6. You are only beat if you give up. Stay strong and you can get through this.
7. If you are going through hell, keep on going.
8. Believe those who love you. They know your strength and believe in you. Now, more than ever, you need to believe in yourself.
9. Think of a dead-end street as simply a place to turn around and head in a new direction.
10. You have a greater strength within than you realize. Allow it to come to the surface.
11. It is okay to cry. Do so if you must, but then wipe those tears and face the challenge with renewed spirit and a heart washed clean of sorrow.
12. You don't have to do this alone. Allow those who love you to lend you their strength for now.
13. Think of this as the universe clearing the way for better things to come.
14. “There is a saying in Tibetan, ‘Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.’ No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that’s our real disaster.” — 14th Dalai Lama
15. You can't learn to deal with hardship unless you face hardship. Use this as a time to grow.
16. Think about the bird that continues to sing when it is raining. He understands that the sun will return eventually. So it is with you.
17. You don't have to solve this all this very moment. Make a plan and focus on one step at a time.
18. Now may be the perfect time to consider whether you want to make a career change. It is the perfect time to take classes toward one if you choose.
19. Losing your job unexpectedly can be difficult. I will be willing to give you a reference when you start applying for other positions.
20. I am confident you won't be without a job for long with all your experience and skills.
21. I can imagine how you are feeling. Would you like to talk about it? Often, saying the words out loud takes away their power.
22. Would you like me to help you gather a list of resources that can help you get through this time?
23. Let's compile a playlist of uplifting songs to inspire you and help clear your mind of your fears.
24. Remember that this is something you are going through, it is not something that you are. You are a strong, capable person who will find your way through this.
25. I want you to know my friendship will remain strong throughout this difficult time. I'm here during both sunshine and storms.
26. I have always admired your strength and I know that will help you get through this.
27. You have always been there to support others. Allow others to be here to support you now.
28. Think of this not as a failure but as a change of plans.
29. “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” — Confucious
30. This is a great time to do something nice for yourself. Want to go get ice cream?
31. Don't allow this setback to determine what you think of yourself. You deserve the world. Don't forget that.
32. Keep this in perspective. This is a bad event, not a bad life.
33. Find a safe place to scream and let out your anger, fear, and sadness. Then, step back and invite the hope and confidence to step forward and take their rightful place within your heart.
34. Ask yourself what you can use from this experience to help give you strength should it happen again.
35. Nobody expects you to be perfect. Those who know you already think you are amazing.
36. Look around you and remember why you need to keep trying.
37. Make this stumble a part of the dance.
38. Do what you can today. Tomorrow will give you time to do more.
39. Focus on the light at the end of the tunnel, not the pebbles causing you to stumble.
40. “And you ask, ‘What if I fall?’ Oh, but my darling, what if you fly?” — Erin Hanson
41. Don't give up. There is still so much for you to accomplish as you move forward.
42. Do you need me to remind you of all your positive traits? I will gladly do so if that will help encourage you.
43. You are not your circumstances but a product of your decisions. Decide that you will get through this and move forward with confidence.
44. Remember that diamonds are created with great pressure. Getting through this will help you find your sparkle.
45. Every ending is also a beginning. Try to see this as the beginning of a new adventure.
46. The willow tree grows tall by being able to bend in the wind. Don't allow this difficult time to break your spirit.
47. Change is difficult but necessary for growth. The caterpillar must endure a period of darkness to become the butterfly. So will this change show you your beautiful colors.
48. In the story of your life, look to this as not the end of the book but as an unexpected plot twist that will make the story stronger in the end.
49. This is a good time for you to reconnect with friends and family. They can help guide you to a place of greater happiness.
50. Energy and persistence conquer all things. I am here to help give you strength and keep you from giving up.
51. You can't change the cards you've been dealt, but you can change how you play your hand – or even if you'd rather play a different game.
52. What would you tell me if I were in your position? Now, tell yourself that same thing!
53. Look at all you have accomplished up until this point. You've overcome adversity, weathered storms, and gotten back on your feet after a fall. You are strong! You are capable. You are a winner. Keep that in your mind.
54. Life's challenges are there to show you who you are.
55. You are courageous and I know that will help you get to a place much greater than you ever imagined.
Final Thoughts of Words of Encouragement for Someone Who Lost Their Job
One of the ways you can offer encouragement to someone who lost their job is to help keep them motivated to continue onward. If you want some ways to do that, check out this article on 17 motivational podcasts.
Your words have the power to make someone feel better. Don't hesitate to reach out to this person to let them know that you care.
And if you want more positive words of encouragement, be sure to check out these blog posts:
- 55 Good Luck Words of Encouragement for a Job Interview
- 65 Comforting Words of Encouragement for Hard Times
- 31 Words of Encouragement to Comfort Someone with Depression
Finally, if you want to increase your happiness and life satisfaction, then watch this free video that details the 7-minute habit for planning your day to focus on what's important.
