Narcissists have chameleon-like personalities that allow them to go undetectable until their ‘mask’ slips. The proverbial mask represents the false self which is used to hide their true selves and (sometimes) their diabolical intentions. Add their charming personality and tendency to love bomb their ‘targets’ to the equation… and it becomes far more challenging to identify them … Read more
“Oh, did you also see how high-and-mighty that person is? They’re amazing!” Said nobody ever, right? People don’t like it when someone acts all superior and snobby… but if you live a life filled with humble examples, you are sure to be admired, and people will naturally gravitate to you. “Being real is what keeps me … Read more
“I don’t believe in magic,” the young boy said. The old man smiled, “You will, when you see her.” ~ Atticus Poetry In times past, women were considered to have a certain value or quality that made them desirable by a man’s standards. Either she was from a good family, had money, or was exceptionally … Read more
Have you ever wondered if your emotional experiences align with borderline personality disorder (BPD)? BPD tests are online tools designed to help you explore patterns in your emotions and behaviors that may indicate BPD. While not diagnostic, these self-assessments provide valuable insights into your emotional state. By responding to various situational questions, you gain a … Read more
Arguing is a narcissist’s forte, especially the antagonistic or argumentative narcissist. The only problem is when a narcissist isn’t in the mood to argue, they will deflect. Narcissist deflection is just as toxic. The tactic is nothing more than a way to worm their way out of trouble. Any type of narcissist can employ deflection strategies, including … Read more
While sitting at the vets recently, I had a discussion with a fellow pet owner about her high-strung dog and what signs the pup had that indicated she was excitable and reactive. As we looked at the whippet puppy salivating over the people in the waiting room, I wondered how wonderful it would be if … Read more
We’d all like to be a powerfully optimistic and spontaneous person who has a unique ability to feel what others feel without seeming to try too hard. Usually, people who have these precious character traits are entertainers, actors, singers, and comedians. They are so wonderfully able to read a crowd, hang out in public as … Read more
Imagine having a highly sensitive child who feels profound compassion for animals, even insects. This child hates violence and cruelty, routing the conviction toward justice. This child is a rescuer of the innocents and an empath who physically feels others’ pain. The child is overly generous, intelligent, witty, lonely, worried, a reader and writer of … Read more
We love watching a movie or reading a book with a main character that is dependable, loyal, outgoing, and the caring presence that others gravitate to. These characters are the epitome of a community leader, yet they do so without any title other than being known as fictional characters ESFJ. It’s fun to be around … Read more
Dishonest people can do a lot of damage. While most of us have told some white lies in the course of our lives, things take a drastic turn for the worse when you’re dealing with outright liars. Lies can destroy the trust you might have once had in a person, or they can make your … Read more