I was hanging out with my gran recently, helping her clean out some cupboards and such, when I came across a box of old love letters from my grandpa to her. These yellowed papers were much-read and deeply loved, and I felt like I was holding a piece of their hearts in my hands. My … Read more
When my folks were newly-wed, my dad had to do his military service, which lasted about two years. Of course, this was in the time when you had to find a payphone to call your loved ones, the internet wasn’t even a dream yet, and there was no such thing as instant messaging (unless you … Read more
Divorcing a narcissist? Welcome to the club. I’ve done it. I will say, taking this step is a bold move and not for the faint of heart. You will need all the right tools to navigate the situation and come out with little to no emotional injury. Don’t worry; you will be prepped and ready to exit … Read more
It’s a lunch date with a dear friend and it’s gone horribly wrong. She’s in tears about her ex, bawling that she wants him back. They had broken up before, but this time, it was different. I couldn’t help but point out “You have missed the signs you are wasting your time trying to get … Read more
I was on the morning commute via train when I felt the power of a stare burning into the back of my head. Careful not to look too concerned, I peeked back, only to be faced with two bright green eyes staring at me. It was a guy (an attractive guy), but he was staring … Read more
Have you been cheated on by a boyfriend, girlfriend, or even a spouse? We’ve got a collection of advice, quotes, and resources that may be helpful to begin your healing process. Cheating is truly awful and presents most people with a cacophony of unpleasant emotions they’d rather not deal with, but with the right advice … Read more
Saying you are in a relationship comes with a range of emotions, obligations, and expectations that may make you feel uncomfortable. If only you could change your mind about a partner as easily as you change clothes and find someone suitable for the particular pursuit you’re engaged in at that moment. That’s exactly what a … Read more
Do you ever wonder if your relationship might be emotionally abusive? Emotional abuse tests are tools designed to help you identify signs of non-physical abuse in your relationships. These tests ask questions about your interactions and feelings, uncovering potential emotional manipulation or harmful patterns. These tests serve as a preliminary step toward recognizing abuse, and … Read more
Judy, a friend of mine, has been married for five years, and she has no complaints except that she felt they did very little together as a couple. Watching her husband flicking through his phone for long periods was becoming the norm. They weren’t even talking to each other. That’s when she realized it was … Read more
“I do.” Until it turns into an “I don’t.” Marriage is supposed to be a blissful union between two mutually loving people, and the goal is literally “until death do you part.” But sadly, marriage often ends before death, and divorce rates have steadily increased as more and more couples decide to end their vows. … Read more