121 Compliments for Men That Actually Work

Do you have a boy or man in your life who you are trying to compliment?

Do you feel like that person simply doesn't know how to take a compliment?

Maybe it has to do with the way you are phrasing things. It is important to provide compliments to the people you care about, as this can help you build a strong relationship with them.

Do you think you are having problems getting the man in your life to take a compliment? How can you phrase that compliment better?

In this article, we will answer all these questions and provide 121 example compliments for men that you can use.

Let’s get to it.

What Are Good Compliments for Men?

You may be wondering what makes a good compliment for a man. There are several important elements. First, it has to do with the delivery. Make sure you time to compliment right. Furthermore, make sure you strike the right tone as well. Do not leave any room for the compliment to be misinterpreted.

Then, you also have to think about the content of the compliment. Do not beat around the bush. Do not try to give a backhanded compliment. Make sure you do not give a compliment out of pity, as a man can see right through this. If you have an appropriate time to compliment the man in your life, he should take that compliment well. 

Ultimately, the most important thing to remember is that the compliment has to fit the situation. If the compliment is mistimed or inappropriate, is not going to be taken well. Nobody likes to be pitied. 

121 Compliments for Men You Can Use

You may be wondering what type of compliments you can share that men would like to hear. It can be helpful to break this up into multiple categories. That way, you can have a few go-tos that you can reach for when the time is right. If you diversify your compliments from time to time, you will find this process gets easier. There are several categories you may want to consider targeting, including: 

Target the Personality and Looks

Of course, if you are ever looking for a compliment for a boy or a man, you can start with the personality and looks. Don't hesitate to get creative, and reach for compliments such as: 

1. What have you done to get your body in such good shape? I'm curious to know more about your workout routine. 
2. I really like men who know how to take care of themselves. 
3. Wow, you are really handsome! 
4. What kind of deodorant are you wearing today? It smells really good! 
5. I like the look of your eyes. It is easy for me to get lost in them. It really makes you look like you have something deep to think about.
6. Did you do something new with your hair? I really like it! You should wear it like that more often! 
7. What kind of shoes are you wearing today? Are they new? Where did you get them? 
8. I'm really impressed with how straight your posture is. It must have taken you a while to develop that. 
9. I'm really impressed with how well you are taking care of your health. What are you doing to maintain your work-life balance? 
10. I really appreciate how you are always a gentleman. You are proof that chivalry is not dead. 

11. Wow, I love the way you treat your mother. She's lucky to have you for her son.
12. I really like your dimples when you smile. So cute!
13. I love the way your eyes light up when you see me. That makes me feel really special.
14. You have such a flair for fashion, like a male model.
15. I love your style; where do you shop?
16. You're so strong! Just look at those biceps!
17. You are so attractive; I really like the way you look.
18. I love how you take care of your clothes; they make you look good.
19. I really love how you move around the dance floor.
20. I just love looking at you; you make me smile.
21. I love your sense of humor; you make me laugh.
22. My favorite thing is looking at you.
23. I love that scruff on your chin.
24. I don't know what you're doing to look that good, but don't stop.
25. You're so adorable; I just want to squeeze you.
26. How do you keep your teeth so white? You must take great care of them.
27. I love to see the way you walk; so confident!
28. You have such a commanding presence when you walk in a room. Every eye turns toward you.
29. When I open the door and see you there, I get goosebumps.
30. It must be a sin to be that good-looking!

Think About Complimenting His Inner Self and Being

Many men are more introspective than people realize. Therefore, they work hard on their inner self. Think about complimenting that nature, including: 

31. You're really funny. I always appreciate your great sense of humor. 
32. I really appreciate how kind you are. It can be difficult to find a man who is kind. 
33. I really think you understand me. I have had trouble finding people who understand what I am saying and thinking in the past. I really appreciate that you always take the time to get to know me. 
34. I'm really impressed with how calm you are in difficult situations. It makes it a lot easier to work through tough circumstances. 
35. You're really great at active listening. I can always tell that you are paying attention to what I have to say. I really appreciate that. 
36. I appreciate that you always take time for me. I understand that you are busy, and it means a lot that you go out of your way to be there for me. 
37. Are you always happy and cheerful? What is your secret? I would really like to be as happy as you are. 
38. Your parents must be really proud of you. I'm really impressed with how far you have come in such a short amount of time. 
39. You have such a kind heart to consistently forgive people. You always give people a second chance, and I really appreciate that. 
40. You're the best. I always appreciate how honest you are with me. You always have an open mind and do not judge people. 
41. I love how intuitive you are; it's almost like you know my thoughts before I speak them.
42. I love it when you're quiet and thoughtful; I can see you think deeply about things.
43. Just to be clear, you are clearly a contemplative man.
44. I love it when we read and share our thoughts together; you open my mind with your fresh perspectives.
45. I feel like I gain wisdom just from hanging around with you.
46. You're a man of integrity and I appreciate that.
47. I love that you're a decisive decision maker.
48. I adore who you are inside.
49. You are so present and in the moment when you're with me. I feel like the center of your attention.

50. I love how you focus on a task and don't stop until it's finished.
51. You have that inner strength that makes a woman feel secure and safe.
52. You project a feeling of home to me. Such a deep connection, like we've been together forever.
53. I love how you treat our children. I feel closer to you because you treat them well.
54. You are so genuine. I appreciate how ‘real' you are when we're together.
55. Your eyes pierce right through to my soul. I feel completely vulnerable with you.
56. I love how you allow life experiences to be opportunities to learn.
57. You are so easy to be around. I love that I can relax and be myself with you.
58. I love the person you are with your children. You are a great dad and they are lucky to have you!
59. You have beautiful eyes. They remind me of the blue sky on a summer day.
60. Having a conversation with you is always a learning experience. I appreciate you sharing what you know with me.

Share a Compliment About His Intelligence

A lot of guys feel like their intelligence isn't noticed. They feel like a lot of people are only looking at what is on the surface. Therefore, think about complimenting his intelligence with phrases such as: 

61. You remind me of a search engine! I'm always impressed with how much you seem to know about just about everything. 
62. I'm always impressed with your sense of professionalism. It must make it easy for you to develop strong relationships in your workplace. 
63. You're such an interesting person? How you ever and interviewed for a magazine or newspaper article? 
64. You are leading such a meaningful career. I hope that I can find a career that is fulfilling as yours one day. 
65. What is your biggest dream? Given your well-rounded intelligence and personality, there's a good chance it is going to come true. I would love to be a part of it. 
66. You always do a great job delivering your answer to a question. It's really impressive how put together your thoughts always are. 
67. I admire your intelligence. It’s obvious that you are a life-long learner.
68. You are so good at math! It's amazing how quickly you solve problems.
69. I bet you studied really hard in school. It shows!
70. I'm so proud of you for being promoted at work. You deserve it!
71. You have an interesting way of phrasing your words that shows just how intelligent you are when you speak.
72. Your positive thinking makes me think more positively, even when we aren’t together.
73. You know exactly what to say at exactly the right time.
74. I love how thoughtful you are when you consider the needs of others above your own.
75. I love it when you talk nerdy to me. You’re so smart.
76. I love how well you know me and have taken the time to get to know me.
77. You think outside the box. I love how unique you are in your thought processes.
78. Your countenance reflects your inner intelligence.
79. I'm really impressed with your self-confidence, particularly in difficult situations. I hope I can learn from that one day. 
80. How do you always have time to read so much? It's obvious that is where your intelligence comes from. You have worked very hard to accumulate it. 

81. You’re so good at giving good advice. You’re my go-to person when I want another’s opinion or perspective.
82. You are never boring. You could keep my attention if we talked all day and all night.
83. I love that your intelligence compels you to be open-minded in every situation.
84. I love how contemplative you are. You are a deep thinker.
85. Your presentation was fantastic! You should give a TED talk!
86. I believe you have the gift of discernment. You are great at seeing people for who they are.
87. You see the value of being a good listener. That's the mark of an intelligent man.
88. Your ideas are fabulous! When I pick your brain, life gets better!

Compliment His Positive and Upbeat Nature

In addition, you should think about sharing compliments regarding his positive and upbeat nature. This is something that guys can be self-conscious about, so complementing it can be helpful. Pick phrases such as: 

89. I know they say that a smile is contagious, but around you, that is certainly the case. I'm always impressed with how positive, upbeat, and confident you are. 
90. You make me feel safe around you. I really appreciate that. I never have to worry about what I'm doing, what I'm saying, or where I'm going next. 
91. I love the respect you have not only for me but for other people. It is clear that you care deeply about everyone you are around. I try to emulate it. 
92. You are always so happy, positive, and upbeat! Never change that about yourself. I know I'm not the only one who enjoys being around it. 
93. Just the sound of your voice makes me feel safe. I really appreciate that you take the time to talk to me regularly. 
94. Your positivity is so unique! I have never seen anyone that has the same level of positivity you do. I really appreciate that! 
95. That shirt really seems to suit your personality well! Not only does it bring out your eyes, but it also goes well with your positive personality! 
96. I always feel very lucky to have you in my life because of the positive mood you bring to everyone around you, including me. I really appreciate that. 
97. You always know how to put a smile on my face, even if I have had a difficult day! I always feel really relaxed after I talk to you, which I certainly appreciate. 
98. You are so easy to talk to you! You know just what to say, you put a smile on everyone's face, and I appreciate your positive outlook on life. 
99. You are self-motivated, and that is really awesome! I wish I could be as motivated as you are, but it certainly gets easier after I talk to you. 
100. I'm a huge fan of your creativity! Whether you are born with a creative mind or have worked to build it, I always love how you put it to use. 
101. You are such an inspiring person! I think it comes from your personality, which has clearly rubbed off on those around you. 
102. It's so refreshing to talk to someone with such a positive attitude. You make me feel better about life!
103. When you called me, your upbeat attitude just made my day.
104. I enjoy all the positive quotes you share with me. I think of them throughout the day and they lift my spirits.
105. You have a great way of spinning a negative into a positive and making tough situations easier.
106. You are amazing when I'm in a bad mood and you find a way to make me laugh.
107. When you're super happy, it makes me super happy!
108. You're so funny! When we're with a group of people you have everyone laughing.
109. Your positive attitude lifts me up and makes me feel special when I'm with you.
110. You make me feel so appreciated when you're upbeat and positive about the little things I do for you.
111. I love your sense of humor and how you bring joy to so many people.
112. I believe in you because you believe in others.
113. You may think it's a small thing to be positive, but it makes a big difference to me just to be around someone like you.

114. I love the fun person you are; don't ever change!
115. You’re so attractive when you say something that makes me smile.
116. I feel like I'm accomplishing more and greater things in life because of how you've helped me see the glass half full instead of half empty.
117. Your upbeat attitude only adds to your handsomeness.
118. I love it when you play with the kids. The way you make them giggle and belly laugh warms my heart.
119. When my parents say something negative, you are so good and polite when turning what they've said into a positive.
120. The way you factor in positivity in your decision-making processes is really impressive!
121. You're so fun-loving, even my friends adore you!

Think about these categories when you are looking for a compliment next time. 

Final Thoughts on Compliments for Men

In the end, these are just a few of the many compliments that you may be able to share with a man in your life. Even though it is important to think about the content of the compliment, it is also important to think about the style, tone, and situation.

In some situations, you may have a solid compliment; however, you may not be delivering it appropriately. Think about putting a few of these compliments to use. You may find that they go a lot farther than some of the other compliments you may have tried in the past.

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