Self-care is an essential part of well-being. Your co-workers, spouse, kids, family, friends beg you to take a day and re-energize, but you just don’t know what to do with that time. Everyone has a different idea of what it means to take a self-care day. Therefore, you must listen to your body and mind. … Read more
As a child, I was taught that talking about myself or feeling proud was intolerable and unholy. The only acceptable feeling I was allowed was to be humble to the point of allowing others to trample all over me, and I wasn’t permitted to speak one word about it. Pride vs humility had hard lines. … Read more
Everyone has deep, dark parts of their psyche, whether they admit it or not. It’s a small fragment of all that makes us human. Many people shove these pesky, stigmatized shadows into the deepest corners of who they are, hoping no one else will notice them. Other people learn how to do shadow work to … Read more
Signs of bad parenting are all around you: rude, obnoxious children running rampant through a store or restaurant; a child bullying another child or a parent shaming their child in public. When you find yourself in a situation where you are witnessing the effects of bad parenting first hand, have you ever stopped to wonder … Read more
Have you ever had a terrible day and wished that someone would simply say something positive to you? I’ve been there. I bet you have too. We all know the feeling of how much better we feel when a stranger says something especially nice to us. Now imagine if you were homeless, forced to live … Read more
An obnoxious, grumpy old man sits at a table with his friends in a restaurant. For attention, he harasses and belittles the waitstaff without remorse. His behavior appalls everyone who can hear him. He clearly displays characteristics of a difficult person. At a local grocery store, a woman slowly strolls up and down the aisles … Read more
“There you go overthinking everything again!” “I never did such a thing! You’re dreaming it all up!” “You’re crazy, and everyone else can see it too!” If you’ve ever heard these words, you need to read this article on “gaslighting vs disagreeing.” It will change the way you think, feel and react to this ugly … Read more
You’re standing in the kitchen with your partner, discussing your mother’s recent health emergency. When the conversation turns to her upcoming procedures and home care planning, your partner suddenly goes silent and walks out of the room, leaving you stunned, confused, and angry. Stonewalling examples like this are manipulation tactics meant to divert the topic … Read more
At the stable yard where I was a manager, there was one fellow horse owner who loved to hang over my stable door every afternoon and dump all of her problems on me, my horse, the floor, or the wall. She never seemed to care whether I was actively listening or whether I was part … Read more
Everyone seems to be talking about inner peace and self-awareness these days. In a world of uncertainties, people yearn for stability, peace of mind, and happiness. But human beings have been on a quest for inner peace for millennia. So, why haven’t we mastered how to find inner peace by now? It’s all in the … Read more